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Respect Comes First

We all know what respect means, don’t we?

Intuitively we know it is treating others as we would like to be treated. It is being polite, like holding the door open for someone behind us or greeting someone with using their name.

Where we may fall down is realizing that respect also means to hold someone or something in esteem or high regard and to actually honor a person for who they are and/or what they do. Do we respect people enough to demonstrate we value them and their contributions?

This is where I am concerned we slip up and neglect to give praise, recognition and compliments on a consistent basis because we don’t fully appreciate the complexity behind respect.

If I regard someone highly enough to honor them then I will almost reverently set aside the time to orchestrate the right way to recognize them. Time no longer becomes an excuse but rather a currency to be worthily spent.

By respecting someone enough I will be thinking more about how they would like to be recognized versus just how I like to be appreciated. And if I don’t know, will I have the courtesy to discretely or even directly find out? Respect can be so much fun!

Am I sensitive and observant enough to see and hear things about a person that could add a powerful “how did you know” effect to a special recognition moment? Valuing people can be a lifelong skillset that builds awareness of the little things around us.

I love origins of words and the root of respect comes from the Latin “respectus” which means “looking back”.

Perhaps we need to look back more frequently. Reflect on occasions we have overlooked or poorly carried out recognition. In looking back with a reframed focus maybe we’ll see if we fully respected our colleagues, friends and family the right way. With better respect then recognition would more naturally flow from us.

Recognition giving begins first with respect.


How Will You Measure Your Life?

Clayton M. Christensen, James Allworth & Karen Dillon - authors of How Will You Measure Your Life?

Can high-achievers have it all?

On the next episode of Rideau’s Real Recognition Radio, Roy Saunderson and S. Max Brown speak with Clayton M. Christensen, James Allworth and Karen Dillon, the authors of How Will You Measure Your Life?
Clayton M. Christensen is the Kim B. Clark Professor of Business Administration at the Harvard Business School and the author of seven critically-acclaimed books.  A native of Australia, James Allworth writes for the Harvard Business Review, and has previously worked at Booz & Company, and Apple, Inc.  Karen Dillon was Editor of the Harvard Business Review and previously served as deputy editor of Inc magazine, and was editor and publisher of the critically-acclaimed American Lawyer magazine.
How do you stay grounded in purpose while being satisfied and happy in your career?
Don’t miss the next Real Recognition Radio program to learn how we start to make things better in our own lives.

Listening to Shame

Brené Brown, Ph.D., LMSW

How does shame impact organizations? 
On the next episode of Rideau’s Real Recognition Radio, Roy Saunderson and S. Max Brown speak with Brené Brown, Ph.D., LMSW, a writer and research professor at the University of Houston, Graduate College of Social Work.
Brené is the author of The Gifts of Imperfection: Letting Go of Who We Think We Should Be and Embracing Who We Are and I Thought It Was Just Me (but it isn’t): Telling the Truth About Perfectionism, Inadequacy, and Power.  

Her newest book is titled, Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and LeadHer ground-breaking work has been featured on PBS, NPR, CNN, and was the topic of two TEDx talks.

What does shame sound like inside our heads? 

Don’t miss Rideau’s next Real Recognition Radio program to hear how to change a culture of shame.


He’s Making a List, And Checking It Twice

I heard a father speak the other weekend of what he is doing with his young children in anticipation of Santa Claus coming to their home.
It triggered in me the classic Christmas song “Santa Claus is Coming to Town” written by John Frederick Coots and Haven Gillespie where the line says, “He's making a list And checking it twice; Gonna find out Who's naughty and nice.”
This father shared how he has his two children write out a long list of the possible presents they would like Santa to bring them at Christmas. He suggested to those adults listening that by writing a long list there was bound to be something that “Santa” would be able to bring to them.
Next, he shared how they started a second list.
This list was for writing down the things each child was going to be giving to family members and special people in their lives.
What a lovely focus to develop in young children! They were not only looking at the magic and wishing of what they would like to believe. They were being encouraged to extend the magic by sharing and remembering what they would be giving to others.
Too often, in the awards, recognition and rewards arena, we get caught up with ourselves and what we want or expect from our bosses, peers and workplaces.
Instead, or in addition to our personal wish list, how about we start a list of the people who we should be recognizing and nominating for recognition.
Let’s start bringing some recognition magic into the air for others.
Q: How do you encourage mindfulness in people for recognizing others?

Dare, Dream, Do: Remarkable Things Happen When You Dare to Dream

Whitney Johnson, author, DARE-DREAM-DO: Remarkable Things Happen When You Dare to Dream.
Is fear of criticism keeping you from your dreams? 
On the next Real Recognition Radio program, Roy Saunderson and S. Max Brown will be speaking with Whitney Johnson, the author of, DARE-DREAM-DO: Remarkable Things Happen When You Dare to Dream.
Whitney is the president and co-founder of the investment firm Rose Park Advisors. She is a former Institutional Investor-ranked sell-side analyst on Wall Street, a regular contributor to the Harvard Business Review, and a TEDx speaker. Whitney’s work was recently cited as an HBR Editor’s Pick for 2011 and she was also listed on Inc Magazine’s 12 People to Follow on Twitter in 2012.
Why are those who dare to do something, the ones most criticized? 
How do you press through your fears? Don’t miss the next Real Recognition Radio at 1:00 p.m. ET to learn how to be happy where you are and leverage what you have.

Giving Great Recognition to Groups and Teams

Many people ask if there is a right way to provide recognition to your groups or teams.
Some of the issues that crop up and cause people to question things are:
* What if one person doesn’t pull their weight on a group project? What do you do then?
* Should you never single out individual performance from teams and only give group recognition?
* Is there a best way to recognize a group of employees?
With tough questions like these it is always good to draw upon principles of behavior to help answer them.
Let’s examine each of these issues and see what recognition principles we can apply to them.
Principle of Equity
The main reason for the concern when someone isn’t pulling their weight comes because of discrepancies in the performance of one or more individuals.
People don’t like to see everyone receiving an award or acknowledgement for something when one or more people didn’t perform well or contribute at all.
For the most part this equity concern is a management issue of not dealing with poor performance in the first place. Poor performers should not be on the team. Period!
This can be done through setting clear expectations, listening, providing skills and resources, following up on actions taken, giving feedback and ongoing praise and of course, coaching and redirection. It also means dealing directly with any negativity right away and identifying performance gaps right away.
In fact a good team should be made up only of competent players. This should prevent a majority of the problems associated with team member being seen as “unworthy” of recognition.
Principle of Worth
Is it wrong to single someone out in a team? No it is not wrong. It is only incorrect if you put someone down in front of others.
Acknowledging them and expressing appreciation for their work is never wrong. Remember most of us desire receiving some form of recognition for our contributions. What is important is to respect individual wishes for private or public types of recognition.
More often than not there will be the undisputed Most Valuable Player (MVP) in team sports. When it is clearly observed that one team player contributed significantly to the goal, recognize that individual for why they shine.
Invite the star players on the team to assist in bringing others up the ladder.
At the same time, acknowledge the rest of the team for their overall success. Be specific, include everyone’s name, and tell each of them how they all made a difference. This principle often gets missed in the universal and global “well done.”
Share the wealth and spread the stories of what your teams are collectively doing right.
The key principle here is to be constantly looking for every individual performance that warrants praise and to give it on an ongoing basis. Make time to get to know all team members.
Philosophy Principle
Remember the Gestalt psychology principle of “the sum of the whole is greater than the sum of its parts?”
Team or group recognition should always exceed that of the individual(s) who shine(s). Using the sports analogy further, the team wins the cup or pennant and then they acknowledge the MVPs. The group is still greater than the individual. That principle has to be top of mind.
It’s important to have clear measurable performance indicators to show why someone truly contributed the most. This can range from sales performance and other business results analogous to homeruns and goals. Measurable results help eliminate disputes over who the “star” players really are.
From a qualitative perspective team members may even let you know who made the most difference on a project or goal.
Remember it is individuals who make up a team.
Get Recognition Right Principle:
When there is a requirement or expectation for group recognition, give both group and individual recognition. Focus on the group first and individuals second. Provide ongoing performance feedback to prevent non-performers and the perceived recognition inequity.
Q: How do you deal with equity concerns around team recognition?


When You're In The Room, Be In The Room

As I wrote this title down the wisdom of the statement struck me again: “when you’re in the room, be in the room”.
I remember the first time I heard that line spoken by professional speaker and author, Barry Spilchuk, as he shared a personal experience with an audience. The words probably hit me then because I wasn’t being fully present with my own family at the time. I went home and began to be more fully present, no matter which room I was in.

This was before I got into the field of employee recognition.

Since then I have found that authentic recognition is demonstrated when givers show genuine excitement and enthusiasm towards the recipient. They make a big deal out of people’s achievements. Recognizers must learn to give their complete attention to the person and celebrate all they have done.

Leadership consultant, John Baldoni, titled a leadership article with "never act like the smartest guy in the room."

This means you have to be more than fully present in the room you have to leave yourself and your ego outside.

And, you had better put away and turn off any and all electronic devices or phones. If the person you are about to recognize is as important as you claim they are, leave everything else behind.

Giving genuine recognition to someone is all about them – the recipient of appreciation and acknowledgement. They are center stage and become the star of the event and you are relegated to the emcee position for a reason. It is not about you. 

Recognition giving is an intense time of focusing emotion and expression towards honoring someone.

Your act of giving recognition is certainly a polished performance.

But it is all always about them – someone else.

When the words have been said and the awards or gifts given, and now everyone is gone, you will be alone in the room.

And if you have been effective with appreciating people well, as you stand there you will feel the room echo back the feelings which flooded the recognition experience that day.

You will have made a powerful and personal contribution in someone’s life.

All you had to do was be in the room.

Q: What do you do to be fully present when giving people recognition?


Remembering…Lest We Forget

Today is Remembrance Day.
November 11th is observed in Commonwealth countries around the world as Remembrance Day ever since World War 1 ended. It reflects the official ending of hostilities in 1918 with the signing of the Armistice “at the 11th hour of the 11th day of the 11th month.”
We honor those who defended freedom during this war.
Each year I wear a red poppy on my suits during this month to remember those who died in the line of duty. A symbol of a simple flower that bloomed everywhere in the Flanders Fields of Belgium, where some of the bloodiest battles were fought and many soldiers lost their lives.
My grandfather, Charles Henry Weller, survived the war but never talked about his time of serving in World War I. I don’t think many did back then. But I possess 3 medals he received, as then, Private Charles Henry Weller, of the British Royal Fusiliers. These are the British campaign medals known as the 1914-15 Star, the British War Medal and the Victory Medal. These medals were known by their nickname back then as “Pip, Squeak and Wilfred”. The Victory medal has embossed on its back “the great War for Civilization”. We have not learned much since then.
In visiting England one year I found a plaque at the Leatherhead Methodist Church that honored several people who died from my home town, including my grandfather’s sister, Ada Elizabeth Weller. It reads simply, “In honoured memory of those who made the supreme sacrifice in the great War…their name liveth evermore.” My great Aunt Ada died upon returning home from the First World War. possibly from the influenza pandemic that claimed many back then.

All I possess that helps me to “remember” are these medals and the brief memories of visits to my grandfather many times before he died at the age of 84 when I became a teenager.
Let us never forget.
Q: What keepsakes do you have that bring back memories of those who have gone before you?

9 Essential Recognition Practices You Can Embed Into Your Work Today

Recognition giving needs to be woven into everything we do at work whether that is in the office, in your next meeting, or simply in how you handle different work situations. Here are 9 top of mind suggestions for embedding recognition into your everyday work life with little or no effort or cost.

1. Glad Greetings. Too many employees report poor hallway and elevator interactions where managers and peers never address them by name. Pretty easy to personalize your greetings by using a person’s preferred name and speaking the usual pleasantries. It is a little thing that means people are valued.
2. Forgotten Courtesies. We’re getting sloppy in not remembering our “please and thank yous” our mothers taught us. Be more mindful of respect and courtesy when interacting with people. Don’t let that door slam on the person behind you –linger the few extra seconds it takes to hold it open and smile.
3. Compassionate Kindness. Go beyond courtesy and focus more on thinking about others. It means getting to know the people we work with and learning about their lives and circumstances. Then it is being open and vulnerable to helping wherever we can and serving them with genuine actions of kindness.
4. Email Etiquette. Have you noticed how one’s name often disappears from the body of emails you receive? Put people’s names back in and ensure you are expressing thanks for actions they have rendered on your behalf and giving them sincere appreciation for any help given.
5. Gracious Gratitude. Shawn Achor, and his work on “happiness”, suggests starting each day by thinking thoughts of gratitude. He goes even further by recommending that the first email you send out each day should be a note of gratitude to someone acknowledging their positive attributes and contributions.
6. Meeting Moments. Don’t let a meeting go by without planning in some recognition, acknowledgement or even celebrating something personal or work achievement. Go so far as to begin all of your meetings with an act of recognition so it doesn’t get eliminated if at the end. This will also make a positive impact on the tone of the meeting.
7. Engaging Education. When sending someone to receive valuable professional development, whether internally or externally, thank them before they go. Tell them they’re being sent to acknowledge the great work they’ve done to date and that you’re expecting great things from them following the learning and development session.
8. Connecting Communication. From 1:1 feedback sessions, to group discussions where you ask employees “what do you think?” draw upon the social features of social media and engage one another more in informal communications. Make time each day to really connect with people and to praise them.
9. Phone Praise. One manager told me how she repeatedly plays and resaves a voicemail message of commendation from her regional manager. She received this months ago. However, its value remains so powerful she cannot erase it. Don’t do this too often, but leave your message after work or before the start of the next day.
These and many other simple actions done on a regular basis can truly show your employees you really care and value their contributions made at work, and acknowledge all they are becoming as individuals in life and at work.
Q: What are some of the recognition practices you incorporate into your daily work life?


How to Create a Great Recognition Program You’ll Be Proud Of

Pride in something, or any object or item, comes from the satisfaction or pleasure taken in the success, achievement or meaningful interaction with the item concerned.
In this case, we are speaking of recognition programs. Having pride in your recognition programs requires everyone familiar with them in having a wonderful experience every time they interact with it, whether employees, managers or administrators.
Perhaps instilling pride in any recognition program can be like coming into a warm and cozy home for a delicious meal with good friends.

Welcome Invitation
Think of a “welcome” mat outside a door way entrance or the invitation extended for you to come to a friend’s house for dinner. And it is leaving the lights on to ensure you see the address when they’re arriving.
There also needs to be a welcome sign and an open doorway into your recognition web portal. Through URL linked invitations via emails or catchy graphics on the website front page, invite employees to connect through the recognition website. Highlight the entrance and make it engaging and appealing.
People need to be invited in and then made to feel welcome.

Guided Tour
When you visit someone’s home for the first time it is typical for the host to give you a quick tour of their place to admire their home and learn where certain rooms are…in case you might need any of them!
Recognition sites need a video guided tour or a learning module fulfilling the same role of showing you around each feature of the website. Have very clear, self-explanatory website tabs, captivating pictures and great headlines, a moving story of recognition and social media feeds of gratitude and recognition.
Show people where everything is and help them feel comfortable.

At Home
After being welcomed in and shown around, your host will likely invite you to make yourself at home. You might simply sit down or you’ll wander around and admire the various items on display in the house. If you’re adventurous you may even pick up something or make comments about items on display.
With your recognition programs they need to be beautiful, engaging and inspire ongoing experimentation. Make communications and branding such that people want to explore the site further, add comments, and use the various behavioral, performance, service and social recognition programs available.
Let people explore and interact with your programs.

Appetizers & Entrées
Those small nibbles of food or drink served before or at the beginning of a meal are to help stimulate the desire to eat, or go right into the main course. Appetizers and entrées are a point of entry to the evening’s festivities, indulging in the food made by the host, or catered to, will be a feast of new beginnings.
Your recognition programs should give small food for thought on how you can engage peers, employees and managers in the total recognition experience. Recognition is a felt phenomenon and recognition programs must be seen as tools to help each of us practice better recognition giving.
Have people experience a taste of recognition and get ready for more.

Main Course
The main course is the featured meal of the various courses served and usually the heaviest, heartiest or most complex meal item. Everything has been leading up to this scrumptious offering.
Likewise you will likely have a main recognition program, your branded flagship focusing everyone on the program that people will gravitate to and help with make recognition a unique and special experience in your organization.
Make your main recognition program a real standout.

Just Desserts
The conclusion of any meal is dessert that indulgence in something sweet. While other items may also be served such as fruits and cheeses the thought of something sweet is truly the icing on the cake of any meal.
For recognition to be like a dessert it is the captured memories and shared experiences of celebration events via photographs, the highlighted stories of acknowledgment from people, examples of achievements reached by individuals or groups.
Savor the sweet recollections of recognition given and received.

Hopefully this culinary analogy will inspire you to look at what is really cooking with your recognition programs.
Q: What main course meal item would you describe your core recognition program to be like?

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